Tulsa, Oklahoma · Paired donor needed

John needs a kidney. You could be the one who saves his life.

John Watkins is a husband, a dad of two little girls, and a Tulsa school administrator. His kidneys are slowly failing. You don't have to match his blood type to help him.

John Watkins smiling out of a Union Public Schools bus window in his red school polo

John Watkins

Assistant Principal · Ellen Ochoa Elementary · Union Public Schools

90,000+
People in the U.S. waiting for a kidney
3,000
Die each year waiting for one
1
Healthy donor can save John, even without matching his blood type
9
Lives the longest paired-donation chain in the past year has saved

How you can help John

You don't have to match his blood type. You just have to be willing.

John is enrolled in paired kidney donation through Ascension St. John in Tulsa — the first program of its kind in Oklahoma. Healthy donors anywhere in the country can help him, regardless of blood type.

  • Your kidney goes to a stranger who matches you. Their donor — who matches John — gives John his kidney. The chain works through swaps.
  • Donors pay nothing for medical costs. This is federal law. Insurance covers testing, surgery, and follow-up.
  • You can stop at any step. The first call commits you to nothing. It's a conversation.
John with his wife and two daughters after a school performance

Five ways to help today.

Start with prayer. Then pick whichever of the others you can do right now. Each one moves John closer to his transplant.

Most important

Get tested.

One healthy person who steps forward can save John's life — and start a chain that saves more. You don't have to match his blood type.

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Almost as important

Share his story.

Most living donors hear about their patient from a friend, not a hospital. Your text could be the one that finds John his match.

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If testing isn't right for you

Donate.

Help cover medical costs, lost income, and travel for John, his friend Kraig, and the family on the other end of the chain.

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The story

A teacher who's spent his life helping kids. Now he needs help himself.

John Watkins is a Union Public Schools "lifer." He graduated from Union High in 2004. He came back to work for Union the next year and never left. He started in the Extended Day Program. He taught at Briarglen Elementary. In 2022, he was named Teacher of the Year at Grove Elementary. Today he's the assistant principal at Ellen Ochoa Elementary.

John at home in front of the Christmas tree

John at home with his family.

He's a husband. A father of two little girls. On Sunday mornings he plays guitar on the worship team at Foundations Church in Broken Arrow. Every Sunday. Senior Pastor Justin Graves has asked the Foundations community to pray for John.

John is loyal. John doesn't complain. Not the way the rest of us would. Not even now.

In the fall of 2025, John was placed on the kidney transplant list. He has a rare genetic kidney disease called ADTKD-MUC1. There is no cure. The only effective treatment is a kidney transplant.

His lifelong friend Kraig Mewbourne — a U.S. History teacher at Edison Preparatory in Tulsa Public Schools, and Edison's 2025-2026 Teacher of the Year — was the first person to step forward. Kraig volunteered to give John one of his kidneys. He wasn't a match.

That wasn't the end of the story. That was the start of it.

John and Kraig are now enrolled in a paired kidney donation program through the Alliance for Paired Kidney Donation, partnered with Ascension St. John in Tulsa. It's the first program of its kind in Oklahoma. A healthy stranger anywhere in the country can be tested as a donor for John — and start a chain that saves multiple lives.

"It kind of excites me because thinking that not just one person is going to get a lifesaving organ, but potentially multiple people."

— Kraig Mewbourne, in the official Union Public Schools article

John is one match away from being next. You could be that match.

Pray with us

Before the kidney comes — pray.

John plays guitar on the worship team at Foundations Church every Sunday. Pastor Justin Graves has asked the Foundations family to lift him up — and John asked us to put prayer ahead of the donation button on this page. So that's what we did. If the only thing you do today is bring John's name before the Lord, that is more than enough.

"But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."

Isaiah 40:31 · NIV

"Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up."

James 5:14–15 · NIV

"Heal me, LORD, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise."

Jeremiah 17:14 · NIV

"Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them."

Matthew 18:19–20 · NIV

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 4:6–7 · NIV

Pray specifically for:

  • John's body. That his kidneys would be sustained through the wait. That pain and fatigue would not overwhelm him. That his strength would be renewed day by day.
  • John's wife and two daughters. For peace in the home. For the daily strength a family carries when one of its own is sick.
  • Kraig Mewbourne. For courage, clarity, and his own match in the chain. He is giving a kidney to a stranger so that John can have one.
  • The donor God is preparing. Pray that the person who will be John's match is reading something right now — a story, a Facebook post, a text from a friend — and that they would say yes.
  • The chain. Every patient and donor whose lives intersect with John's through paired donation. One yes can save many.
  • The medical team at Ascension St. John. For skill, wisdom, and steady hands when the call comes.
  • The Foundations Church family. Pastor Justin Graves and the worship team standing alongside John each Sunday.
Download the printable prayer guide

A 2-page PDF for your family, small group, or church prayer list.

The greatest gift

One more thing John would want you to know.

You came to this page because John needs a kidney. But if John could leave you with one thing from this whole site, it might not be his story — it would be Jesus. So if you've read this far, please read a little further.

  1. 1

    God loves you.

    "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

    John 3:16 · NIV

  2. 2

    We've all fallen short.

    "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."

    Romans 3:23 · NIV

  3. 3

    Jesus took our place.

    "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

    Romans 5:8 · NIV

  4. 4

    It's a free gift.

    "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."

    Romans 6:23 · NIV

  5. 5

    You receive it by calling on Him.

    "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved... Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved."

    Romans 10:9, 13 · NIV

If you're ready, pray this — out loud or in your heart:

"Jesus, I know I'm a sinner and I can't save myself. I believe You died on the cross for me and rose again. Today, I'm putting my trust in You. Come into my life. I'm Yours. Amen."

If you prayed that — welcome home.

Heaven is celebrating right now (Luke 15:10). Three simple next steps:

  • Tell someone. A pastor, a Christian friend, or whoever sent you to this page. Saying it out loud matters.
  • Find a Bible-teaching church. If you're in the Tulsa or Broken Arrow area, John's home church is Foundations Church — they would love to meet you.
  • Start reading. The Gospel of John is the best place to begin. Short chapters. All about Jesus.

Share John's story.

Your share could be the one that finds him his match.

The questions almost everyone asks.

Being a kidney donor is a serious decision. You should know what you're signing up for. Here are the honest answers.

Will giving a kidney hurt me long-term?

Living with one kidney is something thousands of people do safely every year. The remaining kidney grows slightly larger and takes on most of the work of two. Long-term studies of living donors show life expectancy comparable to people who never donated.

You will need to avoid contact sports and certain anti-inflammatory medications afterward, and you'll have lifelong follow-ups. Your transplant team walks you through every risk before you commit.

How long is the recovery?

Most living donors leave the hospital in 2 to 3 days. Back to desk work in 2 to 4 weeks. Back to full physical activity in 6 to 8 weeks. The surgery is laparoscopic — small incisions, minimal scarring.

What does it cost me?

The donor pays nothing for the medical side. The recipient's insurance covers your testing, surgery, hospital stay, and follow-up. This is federal law.

What's not always covered: lost wages during recovery, travel, childcare. The National Living Donor Assistance Center exists specifically to help with these.

I'm a different blood type than John. Should I bother?

Yes. That's the entire point. John is enrolled in paired kidney donation. The program is specifically designed for healthy donors who don't match a specific patient.

Your kidney goes to someone who matches you. Their donor — who matches John — gives John his kidney. Both transplants happen on the same day.

Can I back out?

Yes. At any point. No pressure, no judgment. The program will give you a private medical reason if you need to withdraw without explaining to family or friends.

I'm older / overweight / have a health condition. Am I disqualified?

Maybe, maybe not. The screening is the only way to know. Common ranges are 18 to 70, no uncontrolled high blood pressure, no diabetes, no kidney disease of your own, BMI typically under 35. Talk to the team — some conditions disqualify you, some don't, some you can fix.

What if I want to help but can't donate?

Share this page with someone who can. Most donors heard about their patient from a friend, not a hospital. You forwarding this URL to ten people in your network may be the action that finds John his match.

Still have questions? Call the Ascension St. John Transplant Center at 918-744-2925. Tell them you're inquiring on behalf of John Watkins, paired donation. Or write to John's team directly.

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Learn before you decide.

Honest explainers written for people thinking seriously about being a donor.

The latest updates.

Where things stand for John and the people walking this road with him.

  1. May 2026

    Kraig named TPS District Teacher of the Year finalist

    Tulsa World covered the announcement that Kraig Mewbourne, John's lifelong friend and would-be donor, is a finalist for Tulsa Public Schools District Teacher of the Year. Read in Tulsa World →

  2. April 2026

    Follow-up on Health Matters with TSET

    News On 6 and News9 both ran the Health Matters follow-up on John and Kraig's paired-donation journey. News On 6 → · News9 →

  3. March 2026

    Union Public Schools makes the call

    The district published an official call to action on its site, asking the community to consider getting tested as a living donor. Read the article →

  4. March 2026

    John's story airs on News On 6

    KOTV's Amy Slanchik covered John and Kraig's enrollment in Ascension St. John's new APKD partnership — the first of its kind in Oklahoma. Read the story →

  5. February 2026

    Kraig named Edison Middle School Teacher of the Year

    Kraig Mewbourne was named the 2025-2026 Teacher of the Year at Edison Preparatory Middle School. Read on tulsaschools.org →

  6. Fall 2025

    Placed on the transplant list

    John officially joined the kidney transplant waiting list at Ascension St. John in Tulsa.

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